Thursday 17 June 2010

The Cock Column - "Am I Cheating?"

Another question by email...

"I'm 38, married, and always lived a happy straight life.
I had a few experiences when I was about 16 or 17, but don't we all? It was only wanking with a mate while we were watching porn, and it was only a handful of times.


After that I never really gave it any thought. I like watching guys in porn, and I can really get off on a well hung bloke pounding some pussy and then shooting his load. But I'd never really call myself even bisexual.


My problem is that I'm now in one of those friendships again, but I'm married. I love my wife very much, and our sex life is fantastic.
A few months ago I offered to help a guy on our football team move house. He recently split from his girfriend and had to move out short notice. So I offered use of my van.


We moved his stuff and at the end of the day I stuck around in the new flat to help him set up his tech. So when we were done we were testing it all out and he put a porno on.
I don't see a whole lot of porno, with the Mrs and the kids around all the time it's not to easy.
So we had a few pints and one thing led to another and before I knew it we were both sat there on his sofa with our dicks out wanking away!


I have to admit it was great, and I thought of my mate when I was a teen and wondered why I'd stopped doing this with mates.


We've done it every week since that first night, and since our last meet we swap hands too. It really does feel good to hold his thick dick in my hand, and to have him stroking mine.
Like I said, I love my wife and would never leave her. But there's something really comfortable about doing this with my mate and I don't want to stop it.


So what do you think, is it cheating? Should I stop? Should I tell her?"


This is actually quite a common dilemma amongst mutual male strokers who happen to be straight.

And, in al honesty, there is no real answer that could cover every relationship. It's all down to the limits of your relationships and whether you think it is cheating, whether you think she'd be upset, or whether you think she'd understand.
In reality, if she's an intelligent woman, she'll understand you both wanking together to porn and not be particularly worried. Swapping hands may be different though. Most women would see this as a step too far and a question of sexuality. We know it might be a fetish thing and doesn't actually mean you're gay or bi, but most people can't get their heads around this.

Ultimately it is your decision. If you know she'd be upset by something you are doing with another person, then theoretically it is cheating. But if you view it as just two guys being mates and sharing a hobby, then maybe there's no reason to discuss it with her at all. I mean, it's not like you're going to run off with the guy and have a civil ceremony!
It's just two blokes doing together something that they would normally do in private. But again, if you are concerned perhaps you need to lay off the swapping of hands until you're either able to confront the Mrs and explain your friendship, or come to some conclusion in your own mind about what is acceptable in a marriage.

No one else can give you permission to continue this friendship. You have to make the decisions here and decide what is right for you and her. All I can do is suggest what I think, and I don't think it's something you need to trouble her with.
I may be right, I may be wrong, but two straight guys sharing a wank is not something that really needs discussing with a female partner, IMO. Swapping hands... that's your call.

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Tuesday 1 June 2010

The Cock Column - "Running out of Ideas!"

An interesting post I found on a forum...

"I'm straight and I have a straight wanking buddy.


We've been wanking together for about two years. And it's great!
About once a week we meet up either at his place or mine, have a few beers, watch a film and then switch to porn after and have a great wanking session.
We do all sorts of crap and it can last for hours.


We have contests every week.


One of the best ones we've done a few times is to try and make the other cum so hard he hits himself in the face. I usually win this because Craig shoots really hard. All I need to do is stroke his dick for about half an hour and then focus on rubbing right on the underside of his helmet with just my thumb. 
Then I just aim his cock at his face and after a few minutes he squirts. 
I love this contest because he has to try harder to make me shoot that far. And that usually means he spends ages stroking my dick for me.
We do the usual shooting contests, trying to cum just from rubbing our dicks together, delaying cumming for as long as possible... The usual stuff I guess.


But we're running out of ideas now.
We have a rule that we only handle the other guys dick. We don't suck, we don't fuck and we don't kiss or anything like that. It's all about the dick and cumming. But, having done the self-facial contests and each of us tasting cum a few times now I think we could stretch to more cum shot fun.


We're not getting bored, far from it! But I just want to try to find some other contests!"

Interesting. I never really considered how many games there are to play!

I've done the cum contests, and the edging contests, and I usually loose! But how about adding some toys? You can do a lot of the same games with just a little variation and include a fleshlight or fleshjack, or a regular wanking sleeve.
How about adding dares? Maybe you can dare each other to wank at work and send the other a video message. Or how about an abstinence contest to see who can cum the largest after a week of no wanking?

There really is a lot you can do, and I'm afraid I'm going to have to take a while to think about this more (such a hard life eh?)
Keep an eye out for an update, this could take me a couple of days but I think I could come up with a whole list of games...

Oh, and check out the B8M8 Network, I'll add a page of games and dares to that too as soon as I have something considerable to put up.