Tuesday 20 July 2010

Interview with Conran Thomas

I recently conducted an interview with Conran Thomas, author of "Seven Pints - Heterosexual Men and the Male/Male Mutual Masturbation Fetish."

The book discusses male friendship, mutual masturbation, fetish and offers the results of several surveys of hundreds of heterosexual men from around the world.

Luke: What is Seven Pints and how did you come to start writing it?

Conran: Seven Pints is my attempt to lay it all out there in a digestible manner. We all have assumptions about sexuality, and most men stick to labels that are really not adequate when it comes to defining their sexual desires. I’m a member of a few forums and there was a constant theme where men who describe themselves as heterosexual defend their right to enjoy watching other guys wanking. Then inevitably another straight guy would arrive to tell them they are at least Bisexual if they like that. I had a theory that I wanted to test and asking a few hundred straight guys some questions seemed the right way to prove that theory.

Luke: What was the theory?

Conran: My theory was based on Kinsey’s ideas about the “gray areas” between gay, bi and straight. More directly I believed there were fetishes for male masturbation, dick in general, ejaculation and so on. Most of these straight guys who were talking about wanting to do things with other guys seemed to limit it to wanking, or at the very most oral. It seemed to be primarily a fetish for this sexual act or a fetish for cock specifically, combined with a desire for that friendship we all had as a teenager, where you could just get your cock out in front of a mate and stroke it.

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The Cock Column - "Foreskin"

Posted in a forum...

"I've always had a problem with my foreskin, or lack of it to be exact. I live in the UK and I always felt different because all the other guys in school had foreskins and I didn't.
I even asked my mum when I was fourteen why my dick was different to my friends, and she said that when I was very young doctors told her it should be removed because it was too tight.
My parents are pretty cool folks and they actually apologized, saying that they never would have agreed to it unless it was absolutely necessary, which I appreciate.

I've avoided wanking with other guys since I was a teen because it was commented on and I became very self-conscious about it. I really want a friend to watch porn and wank with but I've only been looking for other cut guys in my area so I wouldn't feel weird. It's really difficult, and it's already hard enough to find other guys who just want to wank.
But while I'm doing this, I've also been thinking about growing it back. I've searched and all I can find are people selling some gadgets that look very primitive and probably don't work.

Can you help me out?"

This is actually a really common situation these days. More and more circumcised men are seeking foreskin restoration.
The main market for this is in the USA where circumcision is widely practiced needlessly.

There are a few things that you should know.

Mainly, this is considered "Body Modification". You've seen people with "flesh tunnels" in their ears right? If not, flesh tunnels are piercings that are stretched with a ring, replaced routinely with a larger size until the desired diameter is reached. Basically you pierce your ear and make the hole bigger over time.
You've also probably seen pictures of those tribal women in remote regions who stretch their necks over time by adding rings.

Both examples are evidence to show that foreskin restoration, ball stretching and penis enlargement without surgery are completely possible and that using similar processes will work.

When it comes to the foreskin, you need to consider what you have to work with. Some men are less lucky and have the foreskin cut so close to the shaft that they have nothing loose to work with. Stretching in this case is more difficult and the resulting foreskin created will likely be thicker. But it's still possible with dedication.


All you really need to do is find a method to pull whatever foreskin you have forward and secure it into position.
One of the best methods I have seen is to use a marble and stretch the skin from the shaft over it, securing it in place with some surgical tape.

I would really recommend just seeing how those expensive gadgets work and creating a home-made effort to fulfill the same purpose. It's not difficult and I have created some basic methods for use myself for stretching mine.

You just need a little creativity and little imagination (and usually surgical tape!)

Good luck.