Straight buddies Andy and Bailey are good mates, but they've never wanked their hard cocks in front of each other before. Not surprisingly, they spend the shoot checking each other out. It's always great to see two mates able to share their favorite hobby, and it's never a surprise to me to see them enjoying the sight of their close mate tugging on his long hot cock either!
Showing posts with label mutual masturbation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mutual masturbation. Show all posts
Wednesday, 13 October 2010
Tuesday, 20 July 2010
Interview with Conran Thomas
I recently conducted an interview with Conran Thomas, author of "Seven Pints - Heterosexual Men and the Male/Male Mutual Masturbation Fetish."
The book discusses male friendship, mutual masturbation, fetish and offers the results of several surveys of hundreds of heterosexual men from around the world.
Luke: What is Seven Pints and how did you come to start writing it?
Conran: Seven Pints is my attempt to lay it all out there in a digestible manner. We all have assumptions about sexuality, and most men stick to labels that are really not adequate when it comes to defining their sexual desires. I’m a member of a few forums and there was a constant theme where men who describe themselves as heterosexual defend their right to enjoy watching other guys wanking. Then inevitably another straight guy would arrive to tell them they are at least Bisexual if they like that. I had a theory that I wanted to test and asking a few hundred straight guys some questions seemed the right way to prove that theory.
Luke: What was the theory?
Conran: My theory was based on Kinsey’s ideas about the “gray areas” between gay, bi and straight. More directly I believed there were fetishes for male masturbation, dick in general, ejaculation and so on. Most of these straight guys who were talking about wanting to do things with other guys seemed to limit it to wanking, or at the very most oral. It seemed to be primarily a fetish for this sexual act or a fetish for cock specifically, combined with a desire for that friendship we all had as a teenager, where you could just get your cock out in front of a mate and stroke it.
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The book discusses male friendship, mutual masturbation, fetish and offers the results of several surveys of hundreds of heterosexual men from around the world.
Luke: What is Seven Pints and how did you come to start writing it?
Conran: Seven Pints is my attempt to lay it all out there in a digestible manner. We all have assumptions about sexuality, and most men stick to labels that are really not adequate when it comes to defining their sexual desires. I’m a member of a few forums and there was a constant theme where men who describe themselves as heterosexual defend their right to enjoy watching other guys wanking. Then inevitably another straight guy would arrive to tell them they are at least Bisexual if they like that. I had a theory that I wanted to test and asking a few hundred straight guys some questions seemed the right way to prove that theory.
Luke: What was the theory?
Conran: My theory was based on Kinsey’s ideas about the “gray areas” between gay, bi and straight. More directly I believed there were fetishes for male masturbation, dick in general, ejaculation and so on. Most of these straight guys who were talking about wanting to do things with other guys seemed to limit it to wanking, or at the very most oral. It seemed to be primarily a fetish for this sexual act or a fetish for cock specifically, combined with a desire for that friendship we all had as a teenager, where you could just get your cock out in front of a mate and stroke it.
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Tuesday, 1 June 2010
The Cock Column - "Running out of Ideas!"
An interesting post I found on a forum...
"I'm straight and I have a straight wanking buddy.
We've been wanking together for about two years. And it's great!
About once a week we meet up either at his place or mine, have a few beers, watch a film and then switch to porn after and have a great wanking session.
We do all sorts of crap and it can last for hours.
We have contests every week.
One of the best ones we've done a few times is to try and make the other cum so hard he hits himself in the face. I usually win this because Craig shoots really hard. All I need to do is stroke his dick for about half an hour and then focus on rubbing right on the underside of his helmet with just my thumb.
Then I just aim his cock at his face and after a few minutes he squirts.
I love this contest because he has to try harder to make me shoot that far. And that usually means he spends ages stroking my dick for me.
We do the usual shooting contests, trying to cum just from rubbing our dicks together, delaying cumming for as long as possible... The usual stuff I guess.
But we're running out of ideas now.
We have a rule that we only handle the other guys dick. We don't suck, we don't fuck and we don't kiss or anything like that. It's all about the dick and cumming. But, having done the self-facial contests and each of us tasting cum a few times now I think we could stretch to more cum shot fun.
We're not getting bored, far from it! But I just want to try to find some other contests!"
Interesting. I never really considered how many games there are to play!
I've done the cum contests, and the edging contests, and I usually loose! But how about adding some toys? You can do a lot of the same games with just a little variation and include a fleshlight or fleshjack, or a regular wanking sleeve.
How about adding dares? Maybe you can dare each other to wank at work and send the other a video message. Or how about an abstinence contest to see who can cum the largest after a week of no wanking?
There really is a lot you can do, and I'm afraid I'm going to have to take a while to think about this more (such a hard life eh?)
Keep an eye out for an update, this could take me a couple of days but I think I could come up with a whole list of games...
Oh, and check out the B8M8 Network, I'll add a page of games and dares to that too as soon as I have something considerable to put up.
"I'm straight and I have a straight wanking buddy.
We've been wanking together for about two years. And it's great!
About once a week we meet up either at his place or mine, have a few beers, watch a film and then switch to porn after and have a great wanking session.
We do all sorts of crap and it can last for hours.
We have contests every week.
One of the best ones we've done a few times is to try and make the other cum so hard he hits himself in the face. I usually win this because Craig shoots really hard. All I need to do is stroke his dick for about half an hour and then focus on rubbing right on the underside of his helmet with just my thumb.
Then I just aim his cock at his face and after a few minutes he squirts.
I love this contest because he has to try harder to make me shoot that far. And that usually means he spends ages stroking my dick for me.
We do the usual shooting contests, trying to cum just from rubbing our dicks together, delaying cumming for as long as possible... The usual stuff I guess.
But we're running out of ideas now.
We have a rule that we only handle the other guys dick. We don't suck, we don't fuck and we don't kiss or anything like that. It's all about the dick and cumming. But, having done the self-facial contests and each of us tasting cum a few times now I think we could stretch to more cum shot fun.
We're not getting bored, far from it! But I just want to try to find some other contests!"
Interesting. I never really considered how many games there are to play!
I've done the cum contests, and the edging contests, and I usually loose! But how about adding some toys? You can do a lot of the same games with just a little variation and include a fleshlight or fleshjack, or a regular wanking sleeve.
How about adding dares? Maybe you can dare each other to wank at work and send the other a video message. Or how about an abstinence contest to see who can cum the largest after a week of no wanking?
There really is a lot you can do, and I'm afraid I'm going to have to take a while to think about this more (such a hard life eh?)
Keep an eye out for an update, this could take me a couple of days but I think I could come up with a whole list of games...
Oh, and check out the B8M8 Network, I'll add a page of games and dares to that too as soon as I have something considerable to put up.
Tuesday, 27 April 2010
The Masturbation Fetish
Conran Thomas, A very good friend of mine (and a wanking buddy) recently finished a book all about masturbation and the fetish men have for it, regardless of their sexuality.He took a lot of time exploring and researching exactly what men think about sharing masturbation with other men.
There is no doubt that he believes most men have a love for masturbation that goes far beyond enjoying the act itself. Throughout the book he provides evidence to show that many men who state themselves to be entirely heterosexual also enjoy seeing other men naked and masturbating.
They don't really have an explanation for this when it comes to their sexuality, they're stuck in the idea that the three labels are absolute and that everything they enjoy sexually must rigidly adhere to a few stereotypical preferences.
We all have fetishes. The most common recognized (and socially discussed) fetishes when it comes to men are for big boobs and large buttocks. But there's the unspoken fetishes too, such as for facial cum-shots, threesomes and orgies. These are probably just as prevalent, but they are rarely recognized in polite conversation as an acceptable sexual desire. And rightly so.
Still, the fact that it isn't something people discuss generally like big boobs and bums, these desires are still up there with the most open of them,
Another fetish that men do not discuss, and probably even more seldom than threesomes and facial cumshots, is masturbation.
There are very few aspects of porn that appear in almost every single popular adult title available on the open market. Popular titles include scenes of muscular men having sex with women, but they also include scenes of lesbian sex and threesomes. But one aspect that is included in almost EVERY SINGLE porn movie is the male (or males) masturbating to ejaculation.
Regardless of where the cum flies or lands, who they're with, or what sexual acts have gone before, almost every scene in every porn movie ends with the male star (or stars) furiously stroking their cock and shooting their load.
The camera focuses on them, the male, completing this event with the eruption of their cum.
If you have ever watched porn and wanked with another guy, and if that guy was straight, you'll have seen that this is usually the point at which they cum too.
When I was a teen and I began watching porn with a straight friend of mine, I found it interesting that he would rewind a scene, or skip forward, to cum when the male star did. He would time it pretty closely.
Hence, I truly believe that my friends Conran has it right. No matter your sexual lifestyle, no matter who you choose to sleep with, the vast majority of men have a fetish for male masturbation and ejaculation. We love to do it, we love to see it, we don't care who is attached to that dick, we just love to see a guy enjoying his cock and getting off.
Being able to do this in the company of other men is not possible for most. While they may even recognize that they love to see a cock being stroked and a load shooting out, they rarely get to the point of understanding how this can be enjoyed in reality without it meaning they must be bisexual or gay.
So, regardless of this widespread fetish, most are restricted by the labels and will never experience the bonding and close friendship that comes from sharing this hobby.
Thankfully, I'm not so restricted by the labels. I really don't care what people think it makes me.
Life is too short.
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