Conran Thomas, A very good friend of mine (and a wanking buddy) recently finished a book all about masturbation and the fetish men have for it, regardless of their sexuality.
He took a lot of time exploring and researching exactly what men think about sharing masturbation with other men.
There is no doubt that he believes most men have a love for masturbation that goes far beyond enjoying the act itself. Throughout the book he provides evidence to show that many men who state themselves to be entirely heterosexual also enjoy seeing other men naked and masturbating.
They don't really have an explanation for this when it comes to their sexuality, they're stuck in the idea that the three labels are absolute and that everything they enjoy sexually must rigidly adhere to a few stereotypical preferences.
We all have fetishes. The most common recognized (and socially discussed) fetishes when it comes to men are for big boobs and large buttocks. But there's the unspoken fetishes too, such as for facial cum-shots, threesomes and orgies. These are probably just as prevalent, but they are rarely recognized in polite conversation as an acceptable sexual desire. And rightly so.
Still, the fact that it isn't something people discuss generally like big boobs and bums, these desires are still up there with the most open of them,
Another fetish that men do not discuss, and probably even more seldom than threesomes and facial cumshots, is masturbation.
There are very few aspects of porn that appear in almost every single popular adult title available on the open market. Popular titles include scenes of muscular men having sex with women, but they also include scenes of lesbian sex and threesomes. But one aspect that is included in almost EVERY SINGLE porn movie is the male (or males) masturbating to ejaculation.
Regardless of where the cum flies or lands, who they're with, or what sexual acts have gone before, almost every scene in every porn movie ends with the male star (or stars) furiously stroking their cock and shooting their load.
The camera focuses on them, the male, completing this event with the eruption of their cum.
If you have ever watched porn and wanked with another guy, and if that guy was straight, you'll have seen that this is usually the point at which they cum too.
When I was a teen and I began watching porn with a straight friend of mine, I found it interesting that he would rewind a scene, or skip forward, to cum when the male star did. He would time it pretty closely.
Hence, I truly believe that my friends Conran has it right. No matter your sexual lifestyle, no matter who you choose to sleep with, the vast majority of men have a fetish for male masturbation and ejaculation. We love to do it, we love to see it, we don't care who is attached to that dick, we just love to see a guy enjoying his cock and getting off.
Being able to do this in the company of other men is not possible for most. While they may even recognize that they love to see a cock being stroked and a load shooting out, they rarely get to the point of understanding how this can be enjoyed in reality without it meaning they must be bisexual or gay.
So, regardless of this widespread fetish, most are restricted by the labels and will never experience the bonding and close friendship that comes from sharing this hobby.
Thankfully, I'm not so restricted by the labels. I really don't care what people think it makes me.
Life is too short.
