"I have a straight guy I chat to on the net about wanking and mutual. It's something I wanted to do for a long time.
He's more experienced than I am, and I'm nervous about meeting up with him.
He's suggested we just go for a drink and then either come back to my place or go to his and watch some porn.
Apart from being nervous, I know he has a big dick. And I don't.
He's talked to me before about one of his mates he wanks with who has a really fat cock too, so I wonder if he's expecting more than he's going to get with me.
I mean, I don't have a micro-penis, it's about 6". But his is about 8", and quite chunky too.
On the plus side, he loves foreskin, and I have more than the average guy in over-hang.
He has seen pictures of my dick, and all comments were very positive, but I just wonder if he thinks it looks bigger than it is."
Okay, so this is a common problem in the traditional heterosexual world, but not usually in male-on-male encounters.
The average cock size when hard is 5.1"–5.9", so you are above average. Not that it really matters.
Generally, men don't give a crap about size when it comes to the guys they're wanking with (or more). It's a titillation to see and experience massive dicks, sure, but that's just sexual greed. It's like looking at a slice of Chocolate cake and knowing it's absolutely yummy, but looking at the whole thing and thinking "wow!"
You're still not going to appreciate the whole thing over and above a slice. Quality over quantity.
Have you misled him in any way?
I'd suggest that if you've made yourself out to be bigger than you are and now want to back-track because he wants to wank with you, you really should own-up.
Just be honest and tell him you fibbed a little when you didn't think you'd ever meet up, but now that you are planning to you didn't want him to have a false expectation.
Chances are very high that he'll say this is fine and not even what he was considering.
And on the nerves thing...
All guys are nervous when having this sort of experience with another guy for the first time, and it will pass. The best thing to do to combat this is to edge for an hour or two before you're due to meet. This will make you hornier than hell and you'll think less about being nervous than you will about getting your cock out with another guy. Also have a drink or two. But don't go overboard.
Size only matters to a very small minority. And they're forever missing out on some extremely erotic experiences because of it. That's their loss.
The vast majority have no requirements when it comes to cock size, and I'll bet my right ball that your straight mate won't care in the slightest either.
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