"I'm straight, 27, and I'm engaged to be married.
I've never messed around with another guy before, but I did wank with a mate a few times when I was in my teens. Nothing mutual, just in the same room while we watched porn. I didn't even pay attention to his dick.
Life was great until about three months ago. I work for a Gym and started in admin part-time. It was a great opportunity because I was a member there anyway. I work out about three times a week so it seemed perfect to take the job when it was offered. But three months ago one of the Gym guys left and I was asked to fill in because I know the place well and have done a little mentoring before.
It was another great opportunity, it meant a pay rise, more hours and getting to work out during the day while helping other guys meet their goals too.
I've become really good mates with a guy I work with, Steve. We knew each other anyway of course, but since working on the floor we've become really good mates and we go out for a drink every week and he comes over now and then too.
He has a really hot Girlfriend who gets on really well with my fiance.
Every day at work he's responsible for locking up, and we usually have a good workout when the place is empty. Then we go and have a shower before leaving.
Like I say, I'm engaged and I've never done anything with another guy, but I really look forward to that shower at the end of the shift. I've never really had an interest in cock, other than occasionally enjoying it in straight porn. But Steve is really hung and I can't help staring!
As soon as we get into the locker room and he's stripping off I find myself watching him and literally gawking at his dick. It's not a foot long or anything, I'd guess about 8 inches. He's uncut like me, and while my dick is darker and the skin rougher, his is really pale and totally smooth, It's actually really nice to look at. He has really low balls too, and he shaves them (I've seen him do it!)
Every time we have a shower I feel myself getting hard and stealing glimpses of his dick while we're talking, and I have to face away from him most of the time and think of nasty shit to keep my dick down.
The main thing is that I've seen him get semi-hard almost every time too. I've caught him looking at my dick a few times.
I'm totally confused about what this means. And I don't know what I should do."
I say it quite often, labels are not what they're cracked up to be. Human sexuality is nowhere hear as simple as the three labels.
Guys often get semi-hard in showers and locker rooms, especially after a workout. Even the straightest men get it now and then and it can have little to do with being around other cock. It's probably more to do with the physical exertion and being in the prime physical condition to breed. But, it's also very true that MOST MEN regardless of sexuality, check out other cock when they have the chance. It's a fetish thing, or a comparison thing, or maybe just a taboo thing. Whatever the reason, blokes often look at cock when they strip around each other.
I think the fact that you describe his dick in the way you have shows that your interest is more than just comparison and your arousal more than just physical exertion. You don't say what you'd like from this friendship, but as you've explained that you used to wank with a friend as a teenager, I'd suggest you've let slip that this is something you'd be interested in with him.
It all depends what you want.
If you want to see his dick up-close, want to wank with him, see him cum, or even stroke it for him, all of this is possible with the right attitude and slow progress.
You're already over the first hurdle; you are comfortable being naked (and semi-hard) around each other.
If you want to move this on, I'd suggest that a great way to do it would be to use porn as an entry into some sexual sharing. The next time you're alone at work and about to have your workout, sneak off and place a porn mag on the locker room floor, somewhere not in plain view but somewhere he'll notice, as though a guy has dropped it from his bag. If you're really worried about it being too obvious, buy a cheap bag and fill it with random stuff including a porn mag or two, and leave that in the locker room for your mate to find. He'll think some guy has just forgotten it, and you'll look inside to find a porn mag.
I highly doubt any red-blooded guy would pass up the chance to have a wanking session over some "discovered" porn. The fact that you're so comfortable around each other already is a good sign, and I fully expect that once he's found that porn, he'll be hard and stroking in seconds, and you'll join him.
If you're not hoping to have a wanking buddy friendship with him, there's not much else you can do that you're not already doing. If you're worried about getting hard in front of him in the shower, either try to overcome it the way you have been or simply avoid the showers. If you do, you may find you lose a friend as he'll probably take this sudden distance personally.
There's nothing to be confused about. Just know that the labels are wrong. You can be heterosexual in every other respect and have a fascination for cock. You can have a wife/girlfriend and still have wanking sessions with other guys just for fun, as a bonding thing, competition or just a laugh. It doesn't change who you are, and it certainly doesn't make you any different from the majority of men, only you are willing to abandon the false labels in order to enjoy life as much as possible.
Let me know how this goes!
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